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GAMES FOR OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE COUPLES – GAME 1: SCIENTIFIC SIMULTANEOUS ORGASM (PART 3)
The couple either stays home or “runs away” to somewhere (a resort, a cruise, a vacation retreat) and follows the authority’s orders. Whether or not the husband and wife actually achieve a simultaneous orgasm is not really important— the crucial factor is that they are scientifically making an attempt to do so, and in this attempt will be doing exactly what they long to do at the deepest level: keep their sex life under control. And now they have been given permission—in fact, ordered—to do so by an authority.
Being ordered to do something which they had previously done obsessively and compulsively will take the “sting” out of their obsessive-compulsive ritual. It will be rendered meaningless. Its chief purpose is, after all, to defend against both the loss of control and control by others.
In this game, control by another is de facto. So, in their quest for a “”scientific” simultaneous orgasm, they will find themselves doing what they thought they wanted to do but will not be enjoying it. This brings up the feelings that had been previously warded off by their defensive posture—fears of being dirty, angry, rotten, shameful, getting completely out of control, going crazy, or being driven crazy. Encountering these ideas and feelings head-on can lead to another (and higher) level of relating and sexuality.
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